Together we move forward

I always believe in the concept of “we” rather than “I “. I am more of a people’s person; I love being surrounded with people from all walks of life. In this post I am going to talk about my experiences about being together with people at different scenarios and how it has been effective in my life. Ever since a kid I was a lonely kid, but there was one person who gave me company and made me feel loved.  That person was none other than my dog. His name was “Saucy” he was a black Pomeranian. His fuzzy nature and playful wits always kept me happy and running around. My parents are from a working class, so most of my childhood was spent with saucy. I still remember one night my little dog saved me from a black scorpion.  It was a Diwali night and I was bursting crackers all by myself in the garden area, I did not realize there was huge black scorpion behind me, Saucy started barking and was acting crazy. I was like really angry on him and said “saucy go away”. Then he just bit my shorts and pulled me down, this made me realize that there was a scorpion and my little dog just saved me. I love my childhood just because of him. I learnt a lot from him, my little saucy was a gift to me, he made my childhood worth every moment. The times I ran around the garden to catch butterflies. Chase the neighbours cats all are a beautiful memory now. I lost my sweet saucy when he was 12 years old and I was in my 6^th grade back then.

Later on I found friends in my later part of life who played a vital role, tell me what not did we do? I still remember those days in school, every time I was asked to get out of the class  it was like “PARTY TIME “. My gang was more like a 9 member gang 4 girls and 5 guys. So after school we would go home walking, playing around and stealing gooseberries. We were once caught by one of our teacher doing such stupid things on road and were asked to bring our parents the next day to school. All these memories create nostalgia about school days. Later in life it was college, the whole scenario changed. It was more about proving who’s the boss, loads of crushes and someone who was always together was “FRIENDS”. Something that one should understand is that when someone tends to spend time with you. You must value their time. Being with people helps you achieve wonders. My social entrepreneurship team turned around communities to a great shape in a short span of time. Together we moved to places we were all over the news for our good work. All this was possible through hard work and being together. Now it’s time that Its time for me to lookout for a new place so that I could live happily with the most priced people of my life “ My PARENTS “ . I have a good job having completed my post-graduation, well now I have decided to buy a new little dream house for my parents.  Being the only son there is always this extra responsibility in the Indian community. I just found a website that makes this job or house hunting and getting my loan for it. The most sort out website for housing is https://housing.com/  . This website is one website which puts in a solution to all your shelter needs.

I have found out few good houses, Hope you find your dreamhouse or the house you want to rent at https://housing.com/

A new start

A new start is supposed to be refreshing. Not every time though, cause its pain staking. It’s more like a reset button. Today I am going to tell you guys as to how I started a fresh and what has it has been to me so far.  Starting fresh has always helped me in various walks of life ever since I was in school. I still remember whenever I would try and paint something; well I used to mess up and my mother would say start fresh. This always worked.

I recently started off with my own ideology about being passionate and that means fresh ideas every time, it was a little pain staking but later I realized I had better benefits. So, today I am sitting in my new office and typing this. I took a little bit of risk and stepped into this new shoes and I see a whole new world. Earlier I used to work in the same field but was so comfortable in my own way of handling it which made me never take a risk.

However last November I got a call from a headhunter asking me to take up a new job. I was a little reluctant that I did not take up the call. The person kept persuading me to take up the interview. So finally I did take up the interview. The interview went well but I still was skeptical on taking up the job. My friends told me that I have become so lazy and comfortable in my job that I am not exploring and letting go waste of my expertise. Later I went ahead and took up the job and it has opened up things beyond my imagination. Now I believe in the movie “YES MAN” starred by Jim Carrey. The movie says as to how one should go with the flow and accept things the way they are and say yes to situation. It about going with the flow of life and not resisting what life throws at us. So always say yes to the new starts that you receive and you will see miracles happen. Today I am sitting in a job where I get to explore a lot of things. I also have a better goodie now so I can explore about having to own my very own house. Ah when it comes to housing I stumbled across this new website called Housing.com . The website is neatly designed and has all the necessary requirements. It just doesn’t stop with buying a new house or selling one. It’s also about renting house, finding a paying guest house to stay at or simply avail a loan for your new home.

So here is the link if you are on a lookout for a place to live in or a dream place https://housing.com/in

Also Check out the video  Housing.com Video Ad

Smile On

Hi reader, 

 How are you doing?  Would you mind to smile for me please? Wow!  That makes you look vibrant. So here is what I am going to talk about today. It’s about "optimism”. This is something everyone talks about every single day. Optimism is something that widens ones view of life, ways to achieve your goals; it’s a means of staying alive and content. I have had a great relationship with optimism ever since my childhood. It has been a great journey so far. I have been the kid with a big grin on ever since a child even till today. When you ask my peers and friends about “Suraj” and one quality that describes me. I am sure people would talk about my “SMILE ON” 24 * 7. I believe smiling through the hardest times helps you to cope up with the negativity.  The world is full of positive energy that one should channelize by being optimistic. 

Two years ago I was gifted a book “The secret” by Rhonda Byrne. It’s a brilliant book which talks about being positive and claiming things in one’s life. The way she says it all is real and the truth. I tried most of it, helped me a lot. It’s about being optimistic, feeling that I would own it if it were materialistic. Here is an incident about being positively optimistic and claiming what I wanted from the universe. After completing my college I was yet to get a job but I just dreamt of buying my own car.  I had read the book and it said to feel what you wanted to own. I went to the closest car Chevrolet dealership checked out the car, took it for a test ride got back. I felt good but at the same time it was funny because I was not yet placed. But within a months’ time I was placed at a good job and was able to afford a car. I believe one should channelize their negativity into positivity by just going through the flow of life. The more we tend to resist and worry the more burdened one gets. I have learnt this in life and have changed my life greatly. When someone says something ill, just listen don’t react.

I start my day by walking my dog. She is such a bundle of joy and optimism. I always would recommend everyone to adopt a pet. They help you groom greatly. They make you smile, they love you unconditionally. I always grew up with pets and it’s been a great life so far. I wish everyone to look at life in a positive manner and go with the flow. I am sure if we do this we will all live for ages with loads of happiness.  I have now started channelizing my positive channel of optimism to own my very own house.

So now that my optimism of owning a house has been set high, I started looking for houses and guess what? There is an awesome website that’s been helping me choose my dream house.  Its housing.com, it’s the most user-friendly website. The features are brilliant it isn't just about buying new houses; it gives you a complete solution in terms of housing. One can also look out for rental homes, hostels, paying guest places. The best part for a new house buyer is you can also get your loan problems handled here. So I have started hunting for my dream house with loads of optimism.

 Login to https://housing.com/lookup  and start hunting for your housing needs.

KIDS PACK YOUR BAGS !!!!

Well this about a crazy incident with the little nephews and nieces.  Me happening to be a “youngest   unmarried uncle” in the family. These kids tend to fancy me a lot plus take me for granted. They make me laugh and also drive me nuts at times.  I have two nephews and three nieces.  The nephews are like big time BEN10 fans their names are Santosh(10) and Sanjay(10) , while my nieces just love fashion even though they are hardly 10 years old Diana(8) , Nandhini(9) , Jackie(6).  Kids these days talk more than my grandma used to. Every Saturday my cousins let me take care of their kids. It’s usually a drive to the closest park. Once when I asked Santosh lets walk to the park, He says “Suraj, why do u have a car. You are being so cruel that you want to make us walk??”. Well this was one such example of their so called advanced brains.

So it was some time during their annual holidays this year we planned to go to Coorg. My grandma lives there.  You should have seen the smile on their faces, my god the evil naughty smiles. So we decided to drive to coorg. It was these five kids my mum, dad and my sister. We started our journey. The brats started of singing and making fun of everyone on the road. As we drove past Mysore the beautiful scenery took the kids away they were silent and excited. One could see the sparkle in their eyes, Jackie says “mamaaaa stop the car “then we stop by a little stream of water and the kids are all excited to see that. Having grown in apartment and concrete jungle the kids were so very thrilled, so was I.  As we drove through the Ghats the kids were thrilled to see the elephants working alongside moving timber and load. We stopped for a while clicked a few pics. After almost 8 hours of drive from Bangalore. We reached at my grandmother’s place in PolyBetta, The kids were all jumping and ran into the house. The house happens to be more like a living antique piece.  The house is surrounded by cardamom, vanilla and orange plantation. 

The kids were actually feeling lost they were so excited to see so much of nature. It was already late so we had a nice dinner and we all went to sleep. It was a huge bed that accommodated me and the kids .Me being stuck in the centre of 5 little brats who tried to choke me in their sleep.  The next morning when I got up it was late. The kids were missing, I went up to mom, dad and sister asked where the kids were. They said that they saw them playing around. I started yelling out their names but in vain. I thought they must be around the nice plantation so I went back to the house and got ready. The Kids were still missing! I was a bit worried and I told my parents. So they started looking for them as well, but they were all missing. We got the household people and started searching everywhere . I was scared but later after almost 30 mins of our search I found these kids with few local kids by a stream trying to fish.  It was such a relief but the kids loved it. I loved it so did everyone in the family. I believe vacations are a must for kids. Especially where they could discover nature. It would freshen them and make them feel lively. Life in cities are  usual classes and technology based life. If I have kids in the future I would make it a point to take them on vacations every few months in a year. Just Surfing through the net I found this interesting link - #travelWithKids   - TEDDY TRAVELOUGES  by Club Mahindra

Make sure to check out the website,

http://membership.clubmahindra.com/TeddyTravelogues/index.html

 Have fun with kids keep travelling show them the beautiful world out there,

Where’s the Loo

Our country having advanced greatly in various streams. We still face a huge issue. We have a deficit of “Toilets “. I live in Chennai supposed to be one of the best cities in the country also said to be a great place to live.  However it has its own issues. Recently I was engaged in a swachh bharat initiative within the heart of the city .My team were Busy cleaning the streets and washed them up using domex.  The locals were all excited looking at us and helped us clear the road. The people loved the after effects of having used Domex. Once done some of the girls in my team asked the local women if they could use the toilet in their place. The women started to giggle, Later a little girl says “Akka we go there for 1 and 2 “pointing towards a bushy marsh area.  So Jamie tells the kid , I am a woman I'm not a kid like you in a irritated tone. The little girl says everyone goes there. The girls in my team were so very much tensed at this. It was pathetic, I could even not cross the bushy marsh area as it was covered with faeces and foul smell. We then had to leave.

Further me and my team did recall the incident and thought of visiting the place to understand more about the situation.  So when we visited these women they told us about the various hardships that they go through every day for their early morning chores.  When I asked them do men also use the same area . They said “no they use the left side of the marsh, while we women use the right side area”. Another lady said even if we have allocated places still sometime men accidental wander into the women's area. Hearing this I was a bit taken back, true that most rapes also occur due to this in north Indian states. No rape incident has occurred here though.  The women said when they would be held up in such a situation they just pull over a saree palu over their head to save their identity, Sad but this is true. So further on we decided to go ahead and educate these people the need of building toilets and sanitation.

The team then planned a street drama and put up a show about the harmful effects of open defecation/ not properly sanitizing. We also played the video byte where the mr MODI speaks about building toilets and cleanliness. The locals were so excited and decided to work along and build a toilet for the women folk for the start as the women had a real tough time in this locality.  The area now has a good enough toilet we also handed over a couple of  Domex kits .   I also can picture the smiles and happiness of the  young women and girls in that locality. Let’s make India free from open defecation.

So I hope everyone takes a step in helping to join the fight against open defecation.

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WEIRD HISTORY -- How was " DIRT POOR" coined ?

I was going through few weird articles and this one popped up and eh i though i would share em with you people :) 
So here is some Weird funny history ...

Next time you're washing your hands and the water temperature isn't just how you like it, think about how things used to be. Here are some facts about the 1500s.

Most people got married in June because they took their yearly bath in May and still smelled pretty good by June. However, they were starting to smell, so brides carried a bouquet of flowers to hide the body odor.

Baths consisted of a big tub filled with hot water. The man of the house had the privilege of the nice clean water, then all the other sons and men, then the women and finally the children -- last of all the babies. By then the water was so dirty you could actually lose someone in it. Hence the saying, "Don't throw the baby out with the bath water."

Houses had thatched roofs -- thick straw -- piled high, with no wood underneath. It was the only place for animals to get warm, so all the dogs, cats and other small animals (mice, bugs) lived in the roof. When it rained it became slippery and sometimes the animals would slip and fall off the roof -- hence the saying "It's raining cats and dogs."

There was nothing to stop things from falling into the house. This posed a real problem in the bedroom where bugs and other droppings could really mess up your nice clean bed. Hence, a bed with big posts and a sheet hung over the top afforded some protection. That's how canopy beds came into existence.

The floor was dirt. Only the wealthy had something other than dirt, hence the saying "dirt poor."

The wealthy had slate floors that would get slippery in the winter when wet, so they spread thresh (straw) on the floor to help keep their footing. As the winter wore on, they kept adding more thresh until when you opened the door it would all start slipping outside. A piece of wood was placed in the entranceway, hence, a "thresh hold."

In those old days, they cooked in the kitchen with a big kettle that always hung over the fire. Every day they lit the fire and added things to the pot. They ate mostly vegetables and did not get much meat. They would eat the stew for dinner, leaving leftovers in the pot to get cold overnight and then start over the next day. Sometimes the stew had food in it that had been there for quite awhile. Hence the rhyme, "peas porridge hot, peas porridge cold, peas porridge in the pot nine days old."

Sometimes they could obtain pork, which made them feel quite special. When visitors came over, they would hang up their bacon to show off. It was a sign of wealth that a man "could bring home the bacon." They would cut off a little to share with guests and would all sit around and "chew the fat."

Those with money had plates made of pewter. Food with a high acid content caused some of the lead to leach onto the food, causing lead poisoning and death. This happened most often with tomatoes, so for the next 400 years or so, tomatoes were considered poisonous.

Most people did not have pewter plates, but had trenchers, a piece of wood with the middle scooped out like a bowl. Often trenchers were made from stale bread which was so old and hard that they could be used for quite some time. Trenchers were never washed and a lot of times worms and mold got into the wood and old bread. After eating off wormy, moldy trenchers, one would get "trench mouth."

Bread was divided according to status. Workers got the burnt bottom of the loaf, the family got the middle, and guests got the top, or "upper crust."

Lead cups were used to drink ale or whiskey. The combination would sometimes knock them out for a couple of days. Someone walking along the road would take them for dead and prepare them for burial. They were laid out on the kitchen table for a couple of days and the family would gather around and eat and drink and wait and see if they would wake up. Hence the custom of holding a "wake."

England is old and small and the local folks started running out of places to bury people. So they would dig up coffins and would take the bones to a "bone-house" and reuse the grave. When reopening these coffins, 1 out of 25 coffins were found to have scratch marks on the inside and they realized they had been burying people alive. So they thought they would tie a string on the wrist of the corpse, lead it through the coffin and up through the ground and tie it to a bell. Someone would have to sit out in the graveyard all night (the "graveyard shift") to listen for the bell; thus, someone could be "saved by the bell" or was considered a "dead ringer."

And that's the truth. . . (who ever said that History was boring)?

Diwali for all

Yieeeeee ....Its Diwali again, writing about diwali. It’s nostalgic with just a few hours left for celebrations. Well I just got back home after a quick shopping for all the necessary stuff for the "CELEBRATION". So first let me  wish you all a happy DIWALI/DEEPAVALI or any other way you want to spell it. Hmmm Diwali has been  an awesome festival for us. I still remember the first essay that I wrote in my 1st std at school was "DIWALI festival of lights".

My perspective about diwali is that it a day where families and friends come together. This is more like a celebration of our country as a whole. Like how people celebrate Christmas as an international holiday, Diwali is our national holiday. Doesn't matter who you are/ where you are from? all that happens this day is happiness and fun. I still remember the days as I was a kid; it used to be real special as there would be loads of sweets and a lot of goodies given by relatives and neighbors.

I still remember those days when my dad would come home with the sweet boxes and other gifts given at his office. I would stand by the gate looking out for his car, As he drove close by I would run with excitement to him to carry the sweet bags along with my lil dog who  kept barking with joy as-well.

There were days that I would look out for this day as dad used to be out of station and would come home during diwali. Diwali was very emotional at times in our house as it was a joyous occasion for all of us to come together and sit down. My mum also being a working woman would have this day off and we always had fun. 

Oh and the best part of diwali is "CRACKERS" ....well this was big when I was a kid. I first started bursting like the real  noisy crackers in my 6th grade , My dad provoked me so much that I finally took the guts to light a "hydrogen bomb"  boom it went and I really liked it. Later on down the lane I have been a pro with crackers . Currently I see the same excitement in my lil nephews as my childhood days. 

Nothing much has changed every since my childhood days, My dad arrived this week from mangalore . Mom has got off for the next two days ...so do I ,Got my crackers(check). My dog is a lil old though, Will make some sweets along with mom tomorrow. Ah about sweets we tend to buy most of them from the sweet shop, just the gulab jamoons are made at home. I love cooking alongside with the family and we do this only during such occasions as all of us are so caught up in our routine cycle of work.

I would have said nothing has changed much but just a lil, well those little things when i sit back and look at them, really mean a lot. Like we have less relatives coming in, as most of the work is done by the mobile phone of wishing. Making tons of sweets/savouries at home has come down drastically but however being together and sharing a lovely day with my mom,dad and my doggie is the best. Looking out for an awesome day tomorrow. Mom and dad are asleep and I’m just typing in this post sitting at the center of my drawing room sipping my pepsi and some nibbling on the savories. 

Guys With all the promos around the flipkarts billion day / amazon diwali sale blah blah what not ...Do not forget your family, make sometime today. Meet your mom and dad share a happy thought have fun....Happy diwali  

Also check out more about diwali fun - Pepsi Gar Wali Diwali   it time to get the smile on :) 

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